undercover brothers, etc.
Had another date with my tall, handsome gay friend Shia.
When he first immigrated to Canada from the war-torn European country he comes from, he lived across the hall from a countryman. He was delighted to be so near someone from his home country, and they became really good friends. Shia told him he was gay, and the guy was cool with it, but made it clear that he wasn't. The guy across the hall started dating a girl, things got serious, and the three of them would sometimes go out together.
Shia sometimes asked the guy if he wanted to go with him to a gay club, just to have some fun. The guy always said something to the effect of "noooooo no no no, hells to the hell no." One day the guy's girlfriend said she'd go with Shia to the gay club, and the guy hell-to-the-no-ed it back home and left them to it.
That night, she came on to Shia, and next thing you know, they had sex. My mind just about exploded. To me, Shia isn't the type of guy to sleep with a good friend's partner. And he definitely isn't the type to sleep with women. Then again, this was a few years ago.
He brought this story up today because the straight friend who lived across the hall, who's girlfriend Shia slept with even though he's gay -- suddenly realized that he was also gay! And he just got married to his boyfriend!
Apparently nobody's ever been more in love or as committed to each other as these two are. Ugh. I don't want to hear about people getting married anymore.
Shia also told me about undercover brothers (I think that's the term for dudes who sort of act and live straight, but then hook up on the down low) who go out and find chicks to have threesomes with because they're kind of insecure and can't relate to each other without a third party there. Kind of confusing, but he talked about it like it was the most normal, logical thing in the world.
So this is normal in his world, but he's still shocked to hear about groups of salarymen going out and expensing a night out at a sleazy club and getting blow jobs in VIP rooms from working girls. He thinks the group mentality is kind of freaky.
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Well. I recently had a convo with a girl who's been a "lesbian" for a good long while at times in her life and we discussed the whole sexuality thing. Now...I am as convinced as convinced can be that I am as straight as they come. Don't get me wrong...I will do some weird kinky shit in bed....as long as it's with a WOMAN. Or possibly women even. But anything involving a guy just really doesn't do it for me. As I explained to her, I forced myself to think about it too, but honestly, it's just not my thing. To which she replied it was good I forced myself to at least think about it. On that note, I have to say that gay guys who go around saying that if you deny being gay it's because you are is just dumb and wishful thinking on their part for the most part. Of course there is the odd stern deny it till they are blue in the face redneck type who then ends up bumming his best friend Jim-Bob...but as a rule, I think most humans have some flexibility in this area, and then there are a few that just fall to the ends of the scale and pretty much are one-dimesnional in their sexuality.
Personally...as long as there is a few functioning pussies on the planet, I really see NO reason to play with anyone's dick other than my own.