mindgames
I am just so woefully behind on my day time work. It's ridiculous.
Neon (customer with throat cancer) wants me to go with him to the hospital tomorrow. He really actually wants me to hold his hand. I've decided that I'll go with him, because I do like him and I am worried. I'd better get at least an expensive watch out of this. I'll accept expensive jewelry too.
He hasn't even told his long suffering and neglected wife that he's sick. He spills his guts out to me and wants me to hold his hand while the doctor tests him for cancer, but he won't even talk to his own wife. He says he won't even sleep with her.
Well the joke's on him because she gets access to all his money, plus he's never home (morning, noon OR night) so she gets freedom too. She's absolutely refusing to divorce him.
The joke's probably on me too. WTF am I doing, going to the hospital with him when I have a million other things I could be doing. Sleeping is at the top of the list.
BTW, I'm not overreacting when I say his girlfriend is scary. She's older than us, and she's got a past. She was a kept-mistress to a famous yakuza dude! She's got a yakuza tattoo to show for it. Talk about playing with fire. You do not want to get on the wrong side of that. Who knows how she got out of that situation alive. Kept-mistress to a yakuza dude must be one of the more dangerous professions. The mortality rate must be very high.
Anyway, to be safe, I waited until tonight to respond, because I know he's working and nowhere near his girlfriend.
No response.
He's ignoring me. I'm really not into mind games. Especially from guys that aren't even customers or boyfriends.
But I keep checking my phone. I am a looooooser.
But after marriage, guys get really into money (making it, saving it, buying cool stuff with it) and the girls aren't getting enough sex -- at least from their husbands.
Then in the divorce, the guys freak out over losing their money.
That's just a pattern I see really often.